Social Change

Lack of Community in the U.S.

November 20th, 2007  |  Published in Community, Social Change

I am leaving for Africa next week to work with World Hope International in Zambia and Vital Communications in Zimbabwe.  Both of these organizations have been working for over a decade to help Africans in these countries to become self-sufficient and strengthen their communities.  The reality is that most of the people in these countries already have a strong sense of community, but just need aid to overcome crisis.

The idea of community has been common place in Africa for a long time.  Individuals in these communities suffering from famine, government turmoil, and AIDS epidemic, have been working together to stay alive for hundreds of years.  The crisis they face daily have pushed them apart, but working together against these crisis they are becoming communities again.

The idea of community, on the other hand, is not common place in the United States.  Most people go to work in their single person car, leave work in their single person car, park their car in a garage and shut all the blinds to make it look like no body is home.  On the weekends they take their single person cars to the grocery store, where they use self-checkout lines, and pick up fast food on the way home.  In larger cities in the United States things have changed a little with public transportation and more people walking, but cellphones and iPods continue to keep everyone at a distance.

These facts trouble me.  I know this isn’t a new thought, we all know that Americans are individuals and neighborly love is a thing of the past, but how to do we fix this.  We can see the crisis of individuality taking over our country and not in a good way.  Small communities have been able to push past this a little more, but the entire country needs to hop on board.  What the solution is I am not sure, but something has to happen.

We cannot go on living the way we do here in the United States.  Big automobile corporations need to turn to producing public transportation again, light rail should be put up in all major cities, community efforts to save energy need to be more prevalent, and community gardens should be grown in every neighborhood.  Heck, China has what 10 times our population and they use approximately a 1/4 of the oil we do.

Maybe I am preaching to the choir, but one more person talking about the crisis is just one more person away from creating the strong communities we need in our society.  Community equals sustainability.  Shane Claiborne, founder of the Simple Way, says “Live simply so that others may simply live.”  His words of wisdom should ring through American’s ears.

Do you really not see the color of my skin?

September 28th, 2007  |  Published in Civil Society, Equality, Social Change

While catching up on the news this morning before work, I heard about Bill O’Reilly’s most recent comments about race and ethnicity in America.

O’Reilly had eaten dinner at a black owned restaurant, with Mr. Al Sharpton in Harlem. Bill described is experience as no different than any other restaurant and made comments about ice tea and other stereotypical “black” foods. To his credit he was trying to say that Black Americans are no different than White or any other Americans and we should all be treated the same, but he did not do a very good job of saying it.

Watch the video for yourself to decide.

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Really, my whole point is not to bash on Bill O’Reilly, all though he really needs to think before he talks, because I do believe he meant well by what he said.

Listening to his story it just brought up some discussions I have been having with my very intelligent, office mate. We were talking about her experience in the Institute on Healing Racism, through our local chamber. She was talking about the fact that some people believe they can say they are not racist, by saying I did not see the color of their skin.

The truth, she says, is that no matter who you are, how racist you are or are not, or how much you do or do not believe in stereotypes… “You always see the color of someones skin!”

She is right, no matter who I interact with, whether they are of another gender, ethnicity, or disabled I first realize that they are different than me and then I really get to know them.

The fact is we all notice the differences in others no matter who they are. What makes us not prejudice is how much we do to get to know others and not make snap judgments. Those that we consider racist in our society, are those that consider their ignorance the right answer to everything without figuring it out for themselves, or taking a chance on someone else, on someone different.

My new challenge to everyone is to get to know those around them, more than just their name and title. Really get to know your colleges and neighbors before you decide you do not like them, because then at least you will not like them for their character and not their physical characteristics. :)